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到了一定年纪,你终将不争不吵不炫耀

时间:2021-06-16 09:12来源:田四央 作者:田四央 点击:
Time has rounded our edges and corners, changed our character, and taught us some truth. When I was young, I used to fight for superiority, fame, and profit. When I suffered a loss, stumbled, and fell to the ground, I knew that it was the g
Time has rounded our edges and corners, changed our character, and taught us some truth.
 
   When I was young, I used to fight for superiority, fame, and profit. When I suffered a loss, stumbled, and fell to the ground, I knew that it was the great wisdom to be a man if he didn't fight or quarrel or show off.
 
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   Indisputable is the wisdom given by the years.
 
   "I don't fight with anyone, I don't bother to fight with anyone... My hands are warmed by the fire of life, the fire is withered, and I am ready to go."
 
   This is a poem by the British poet Rand translated by Mr. Yang Jiang. Some people say that this poem is also a portrayal of Yang Jiang's life.
 
   In this bustling world, many people want to get ahead.
 
   But Yang Jiang is not like that. She reads and writes, translates and pursues academic research, only because of her happiness, she has no desire to compete for fame and profit.
 
   In the turbulent times, Yang Jiang only hopes to have a quiet desk. When translating manuscripts, others can translate 1,000 words a day, and she doesn’t compare with others, she translates 500 words seriously every day.
 
   It is this calm, unhurried, non-competitive mentality that makes "Don Quixote" translated by Mr. Yang Jiang have quality and weight, so that it is called the best translation.
 
 
   Lin Yutang once wrote in "The Wind and Crane": No dispute is a big fight. If you don't fight, the people of the world won't fight with it.
 
  At a certain age, you will understand that when we are caught in a fight for fame and gain, our greed will swell.
 
Struggling with fate will add to the burden of life; fighting with relatives will intensify conflicts, alienate feelings, and lose more than gains; fighting with lovers will make life more trivial and less peaceful; fighting with friends will make friends gradually Going away...
 
  What is fighting is reason, what is losing is love, and the one who is injured is still himself.
 
   Bai Luomei said:
 
   "There is a game of chess in life, and we are always powerless to win or lose. When you are confused, you are mostly in the game. When you realize it, people are already out of the game.
 
   If you look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind, it’s simple and clear. If you use a complicated mentality to look at the world, you will be fascinated by the world. "
 
   Life is only a few decades, and time is easy to pass away. If you entangled in an uncomfortable thing for too long, you will be annoyed, painful, tired, and distressed.
 
   Therefore, we must learn to let go.
 
   If you don't fight, you can withdraw.
 
  02
 
   is not noisy, it is the peace given by time.
 
   Once upon a time, our tempers were as stubborn as donkeys.
 
A little friction in love can make us turn around and leave; a bit of trouble in work can make us submit our resignation the next day; a bad thing from others can make us angry all day .
 
   Time passed, and the same thing happened again, only to find that we not only learned to tolerate and forbearance, but also learned to smile when faced with gossip, too lazy to be true.
 
A few years ago, Jay Chou was scolded for "junk" by the founder of Vanke. When Kunling attended the event, he was asked about Jay Chou being scolded, but she did not expect that the King's Wife answered calmly: "I think it’s a bit unreasonable to say these things. Responsible, but just ignore him."
 
   The sentence "Don't pay attention to him" is enough to see the pattern.
 
   There is a Korean proverb: kicking a stone in a rage only hurts toes.
 
   There are many ways to deal with problems, anger is one, tolerance is one, and ignoring is another.
 
   But getting angry is obviously the most undesirable.
 
   As the saying goes: Being angry is good for a while, and it costs the crematorium.
 
   When people are angry, their brains are congested and they lose their senses. At this time, 80% of the decisions they make will be wrong, and the price that needs to be paid is heavy.
 
   The violent people always go from one extreme to the other, and the good-tempered people are like sunny days, exiled with light everywhere.
 
   Everyone has a temper. It is instinct to lose your temper. It is the ability to keep your temper under pressure.
 
   I hope time can give you peace without noise.
 
 
  03
 
   Do not show off, it is the humility endowed by experience.
 
  Before, an internet celebrity posted a photo of himself sitting in the cockpit of an airplane, and the news that his boyfriend's captain was grounded for life caused a lot of noise on the Internet.
 
   An airplane is related to the lives of hundreds of people on board, and irrelevant people are not allowed to enter the cockpit.
 
   But for the sake of their vanity and to show off on the Internet, the female student is eager to try; in order to satisfy his girlfriend, her boyfriend knowingly committed the crime, and buries the future.
 
   Is it sad? To be honest, it's really sad.
 
   But poor people must have pity.
 
   The wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it.
 
   is so arrogant and arrogant, I should have thought that it would end like this.
 
   In fact, the truly outstanding people tend not to show up and publicize, but are low-key and cautious, humble and polite, willing to be ordinary people who are unknown.
 
   Because they understand deeply, they can go further with humility.
 
   Just like when we were young, we loved to compare and show off in a high-profile manner, and we were often proud of a little success.
 
   After more experience, I finally realized that there is a sky outside the world, there are people outside the world, things are fickle, things change, high-profile troubles, low-key to ensure safety.
 
   Low-key and humble, why show off; people must live to the extreme, they must be plain and simple.
 
   The old saying goes: "The strong are easy to break, and the soft will last forever."
 
   Low-key, it is attitude, not showing off, it is a kind of wisdom.
 
   Don't show off, it's because you absolutely approve of yourself.
 
   As there is a saying, the more a person lacks, the more he loves to show off.
 
  Mature rice always bows its head; truly rich people don’t show off when they meet people.
 
   Money is nothing but a piece of paper, which will not be used in a hundred years; fame and fortune are nothing but a dream, and people will be empty after they go.
 
  Being a person, there is no need to show off, because the master is often hidden by your side.
 
   Only modesty can make you fly higher; only low-key can make you go further.
 
   Whether the scenery is good or rich, don’t be ignorant and humble the world will be friendly to you.
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